You being shocked( condensending) is why thes young men end up in trouble. For the record I could go to any prison across the nation and put together 2 NFL teams. Sammy Watkins has now risked his entire career over a joint. With that said he will probally end up a pro, he will lose more money because of this then most of the population will ever make. Their are a bunch of reasons why 80% these Pro Football players are bankrupt and divorced with in three years after leaving the NFL. I do have talks with my son and daughters about Alcohol,drugs and sex. What remains consistant with what i say is simple. If you want to be GREAT at something than put your best foot forward and dedicate yourself to what ever it is. It does not matter if you suceed or fail.It matters that you did everything possible to try.Do not look back in 5,10,20 years and have regret that you didnt give it everything you could.That regret will hang with a person.It is not only what you do to be a sucess in some ways it is more important in what you do not do.There will be plenty of time later in life to do the bull sh-t. Do my kids listen maybe maybe not. But I try! Yes I am one that has regret. As Far as your Sex Comment.Ask the former Star RB and Iowa superstar how funny you are. Go watch him at Stoney Brook. Four deadly sins of College Football 1 Drugs 2 Sex 3 theft 4 video games.