Belgian man discovers wife of 19 years was born male

[Kenect2]

Why shouldn't he be upset about being married to a genetic man?

How do you know what her genes are?

[Kenect2]

More of a altered defaced male.

It's amazing what slurs are permitted on this forum.

[Baltimatt]

Why shouldn't he be upset about being married to a genetic man?

There are other forums on the internet. Some are even safe places for GSMs.

Gender and Sexuality Minority. A more encompassing version of LGBT or the gay community.

You disparaged him by belittling her, as if it were a bad thing to be married to a trans woman.

Why don't you two take it up with each other instead of coming at me from two different sides?

[kudzu]

Wow, dude, your best marriage was to a man who became a woman.

Sounds like a classic case of fraud to me, matt.

[Kenect2]

Why don't you two take it up with each other instead of coming at me from two different sides?

I was still talking about your original comment. I understand your intent, but your end doesn't justify your means.

[Mom49of4]

Why are you so hard on Matt? Is he not allowed an opinion?

[kudzu]

I thought I was being quite reasonable, Mom.

[Smokey 1]

How do you know what her genes are?

It would stand to reason if he was a transgender man to woman that his genetic code would still be XY.

[kudzu]

It would stand to reason if he was a transgender man to woman that his genetic code would still be XY.

i.e., a man.

[Kenect2]

It would stand to reason if he was a transgender man to woman that his genetic code would still be XY.

No, that is not a reasonable assumption. She could be XXY. She could even be XX, if she got too much testosterone in development and grew a penis. Since there is no media coverage of the woman's side, we don't even know what surgery she had. If she had some intersex condition, then she might never have been a boy at all, but merely had ambiguous genitalia that appeared to be masculine.

[Cynic]

So...

A guy cheats on his wife with a 16 years younger au-pair/nanny from the Indonesian that is caring for his sister's kids.

Dumps wife and marries the 'hot' young 18 year old nanny.

And 19 years later finds out about the trans status.


I really doubt the surgery 20 years ago was so good that he had no clue.

He was no virgin. He has other wives.
If he was halfway a decent lover in bed he would have noticed something.
but 19 years.. no clue...

I wager he is one of those boorish men that pays little to no attention to his partners at all.. in bed or out of it.

How else could he be so ignorant of female anatomy, or his partner?

His lack of having had a clue also indicates why his other marriages went bust I wager.

-Cynic

If I found out my wife was really a man, I think I'd want a divorce, too.

Then I'd ask myself how it was possible that so many years could go by without me having the slightest clue.