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Thread: Annapolis Business says no to weddings because of gay marriage

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    Some photographers don't know how to pose same-sex couples.

    John Zito, president of the Maryland Wedding Professionals Association, said he knows of a wedding photographer who "didn't feel comfortable" taking same-sex couples' photos because he was unaccustomed to posing two grooms or two brides together. Zito would not identify the photographer.

    "I'm a photographer by trade myself, and I've done a couple of commitment ceremonies, and it is kind of awkward," Zito said. "When you have two men, I don't know how to pose them, and this person didn't know how to provide them the same services [as he would provide straight couples] if they didn't know how to pose them."
    Really?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Baltimatt View Post
    How about side by side? Face to face?

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    Bystander--

    Don't wedding photographers do a lot of poses? I'm sure they could try different things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Baltimatt View Post
    Bystander--

    Don't wedding photographers do a lot of poses? I'm sure they could try different things.
    That was kind of my point. The couple usually stands next to one another or facing one another. I don't see what difference it makes whether the couple is gay or straight. Wedding photos are pretty standard stuff with a few exceptional photographers that are creative with lighting, special effects etc.

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    Still waiting for an explanation of why Discover Annapolis no longer does weddings.

    Sorry, but we are no longer taking reservations for wedding transportation.

    We're preparing a full explanation to be posted soon.
    Maybe his lawyer thought such an explanation wouldn't help.
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    He finally has an explanation.

    To sum up: My decision to stop doing all weddings in order to avoid doing gay weddings is not because I’m a “homophobe” (my inner Greek student cringes at the word). I am not afraid of homosexuals. I’m afraid for homosexuals. Homosexuality is an indicator that a person is in need of God’s gift of righteousness in Jesus Christ. And the Bible holds out the hope that there is nothing unique about being gay that puts a person beyond God’s love and power to change.

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    If a person has a weakness for alcohol and drunkenness, most people would agree that the loving thing to do is to help that person face and overcome their destructive habits. Those who would encourage indulgence are not the loving ones, but those who have the courage to confront and help them. The same is true with those struggling with sexual sins, including same-sex attraction. The loving thing to do is not to encourage people to indulge or celebrate their sin but to help them live in accordance with God’s design for them. Paul could say to the Corinthian believers, “Such were some of you, but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.” In Christ, there is forgiveness and salvation, whatever the sin that has enslaved a person. Christians need to be about bringing to others the deliverance they have experienced. To do anything else would be unloving.
    He admits earlier in this explanation that he does not question opposite-sex couples to ascertain whether he would be celebrating sin.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Baltimatt View Post
    He finally has an explanation.



    He admits earlier in this explanation that he does not question opposite-sex couples to ascertain whether he would be celebrating sin.
    oh boy...that tells me all I need to know....can't wait to call this nut tomorrow!!!

    here's the website: http://www.discover-annapolis.com/index.html

    and here's the link from HIS website as to why:


    http://www.discover-annapolis.com/DO...0explained.pdf

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    It never ceases to amaze me how hard people will work to use religion to justify their hate.

    Looks like the guy's online reviews have taken a hit. What I really hope happens is that a new competitor will spring up to fill the wedding void and take some of his other business as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by demopublican View Post
    It never ceases to amaze me how hard people will work to use religion to justify their hate.

    Looks like the guy's online reviews have taken a hit. What I really hope happens is that a new competitor will spring up to fill the wedding void and take some of his other business as well.
    totally agree and hubby and I were just saying that we wanted to spend a weekend in Annapolis before it gets too hot.....we wanted to take a tour as we've never done one....well we won't be using this guy that's 4 sure...I'll call him tomorrow and explain why since my bible says something different!!!!

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    It's amazing how some people can characterize (and/or rationalize) their hatred as "love"! Very Orwellian.

    Queenie - Take a walking tour of Annapolis (like this one). The historic district is very compact and not really suited to a bus tour anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omaha Beach View Post
    Just wait a bit. I guarantee you that six months or a year from now the ACLU will be representing a homosexual couple in a lawsuit because a priest or orthodox rabbi refuses to marry them. Bet on it.
    I'll take that bet, for any amount you'd care to wager.

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    Quote Originally Posted by regularguy View Post
    It's amazing how some people can characterize (and/or rationalize) their hatred as "love"! Very Orwellian.

    Queenie - Take a walking tour of Annapolis (like this one). The historic district is very compact and not really suited to a bus tour anyway.
    wow..ok cool....thanks and I called the NUT in Annapolis and he REFUSES to get on the phone with me....LOL....I guess I'll just send him an email instead!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by queenie View Post
    wow..ok cool....thanks and I called the NUT in Annapolis and he REFUSES to get on the phone with me....LOL....I guess I'll just send him an email instead!!!
    I know some of those tour guides and the ones I know don't share your political views either. Maybe you would be better off with a self guided tour.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smokey 1 View Post
    I know some of those tour guides and the ones I know don't share your political views either. Maybe you would be better off with a self guided tour.

    no it really doesn't apply to me since I'm already married to by husband....sorry!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by queenie View Post
    no it really doesn't apply to me since I'm already married to by husband....sorry!!!
    What a non sequitur.

    What does that have to do with my statement? My point is if you are only going to use services from people who agree with your political views you are going really limit who you do business with.

    And don't apologize to me that you are married to your husband, you should apologize to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smokey 1 View Post
    What a non sequitur.

    What does that have to do with my statement? My point is if you are only going to use services from people who agree with your political views you are going really limit who you do business with.

    And don't apologize to me that you are married to your husband, you should apologize to him.
    I'm cracking up now dude...may I call you dude...anyway the NUT isn't stopping ALL his business to peeps who want to be married to the same gender he is ONLY stopping the WEDDING aspect of his business to EVERYONE because he is against GAY MARRIAGE for RELIGIOUS REASONS....get it???

    AND the NUT clearly stated that NOT EVERYONE in his company feels the same way that he does about gay marriage....are u still confused now???

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    Queenie--

    Actually, he's stopping all wedding service because if he stops it just for same-sex couples, he will run afoul of the state's anti-discrimination laws.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Baltimatt View Post
    Queenie--

    Actually, he's stopping all wedding service because if he stops it just for same-sex couples, he will run afoul of the state's anti-discrimination laws.
    yes I know that....that's what I was saying....I'm already married so it doesn't even apply to me anyway!!!

    and I'm not boycotting him because he is stopping his wedding services due to his cafeteria style selected bible passages I'm boycotting him because the COWARD would not get on the phone with me....just wait till I show up in person.....I'll tell him that Smokey_1 from the Balto Sun Forums sent me

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    Quote Originally Posted by queenie View Post
    I'm cracking up now dude...may I call you dude...anyway the NUT isn't stopping ALL his business to peeps who want to be married to the same gender he is ONLY stopping the WEDDING aspect of his business to EVERYONE because he is against GAY MARRIAGE for RELIGIOUS REASONS....get it???

    AND the NUT clearly stated that NOT EVERYONE in his company feels the same way that he does about gay marriage....are u still confused now???
    I am not the one who is confused.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smokey 1 View Post
    I am not the one who is confused.
    whew ok cause I was really worried

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