This is a good thread with some legit points in it (especially the OP). However, you'll see time and again a post begin with "it's obvious we were the better and more talented team" or something similar.
Fact is, the 49ers fans all bought into the media hype machine of kaep and the unstoppable juggernaut of the 49ers. Hell, most of them won't even say the simple words "we got beat," because the idea of possibly losing the SB wasn't even entertained.
Footnote: If you check out the Broncos boards, they're still crying about the refs 3 weeks later. Broncos and 49ers fans are basically mirror images, full of arrogance but short on lombardis.